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So many have ended up falling away from Christianity because they see those whom they think are mature in the faith doing things that are abominable—or even more secular than non-believers. This includes pastors, church elders, and people held in high esteem in the church.These observers have a valid reason to doubt Christianity itself when those they look up to fail to practice the very things they preach. It is truly a disgraceful thing. That is why Christ warned us against such people when He said:

 Matthew 7:15-20 NKJV

Christianity Is Bigger Than One Leader

You can’t leave the country simply because the local leader in your area is corrupt. The country is much bigger than just your local area—and so is Christianity.

If the person you look up to in the faith is doing things contrary to the faith, it is only a reflection of what is happening inside them. Sometimes God permits these one-off scenarios of public shaming and exposure of prominent religious figures to show each of us that whoever claims to be close to Him must be aligned with His will—not praising Him with their lips while their heart is far from Him.

For He has promised that whatever is inside will eventually come out. Yes, if you draw close to Him, whatever is on the inside will be made known on the outside. This should serve as a solemn warning to every one of us: If you are drawing closer to Him, get ready for whatever private sins or deeds you are hiding on the inside to eventually be exposed.

The Upside and Downside of Exposure

This is both the upside and the downside. It is normally for the greater good that God exposes those who sin privately. Yet sometimes this very news can demotivate those who aspire to join the faith, because the people they hoped were righteous appear no better than the heathen—sometimes even worse.That is why Christ also warns:

Luke 14:28-30 NKJV

There is a price for following Christ. If you are not willing to pay it, it is better not to follow Him in the first place.

A Personal Word to the Sincere Seeker

This message is for you who genuinely want to know Christ and make Him your Lord and Savior. He will be all that you need Him to be, but you must draw close to Him. This happens through commitment and death to the flesh. His grace will sustain you, so do not feel too weak or sinful to draw near. Initiate the commitment by saying “no” to the flesh, and His grace will strengthen you all the way through.

Remember, those we consider righteous in Scripture were not righteous by their own strength. The disciples were mere men who battled sin just like you, yet they were strengthened and led by the Spirit. He sustained them—not their personal strength.

Final Encouragement

So do not let those who have failed to yield the fruit of the Spirit discourage you from pressing on. And do not think that every Christian eventually falls. No. We are all struggling in one way or another, but by holding on, resisting the urge to fall, and most definitely by His grace, we are sustained and still standing.

Seek Christ for yourself. Stay rooted in His Word. Discern wisely—and keep drawing closer.